Cancer and relationships - Talk About Marriage

Well, his response so far doesn't look good. But that doesn't mean that he isn't concerned for you or thinking about you even as he is on his business trip. A few text messages from him this morning would have been nice though, regardless of how busy he is.

Also, a four month relationship is maybe not a good foundation for a serious life-changing event such as this. I'm sorry, but I wouldn't expect him to be your support through this even if it is a scare.

Maybe others who have been in your shoes will follow with more input or advice.

But, I can share a similar story that happened in my MIL's life... when she was about 25 years old, she was in a car accident that paralyzed her. Her boyfriend at the time didn't stick around. Well, she and my FIL had dated before the accident but since she was younger and wanted a family, they parted ways but remained friends. He visited her EVERY day in the hospital and each time he brought a card. They got married and they were a very happy couple until his sudden death twelve years ago.

It's hard to say if your boyfriend is the type of man that my FIL was, but my story is proof that they do exist.

Take care and try not to worry too much about your upcoming tests. Hopefully it's just a scare. I know first hand that it's hard to wait for answers. Hang in there!

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